Dealing With Problems - Fix Your Relationship Issues

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Do you ever just have one of those days? The kind of day in which it seems nothing is going right? Well, a few minutes ago I was playing around with some new ideas for my website and accidentally deleted the entire thing. Yeah, that's right, I deleted the entire website! All my hard work down the drain in a matter of seconds, talk about frustrating! When this happened I literally wanted to throw my laptop in the garbage and give up. How do you handle things when they get tough? First of all you should stop and take a chance to breathe. Second you should take an account of just how bad things really are. Third you should begin taking small steps in the direction of rectifying the situation.

When things go bad like they did with my website I wanted to just throw in the towel. I was really not ready to deal with the problem at this stage. I felt all my options were lost because I was emotionally tied to the problem. When you are in this state it is impossible to clearly figure out the solution. Sitting down to relax is the best thing you can do at this point. Try breathing exercises or try to focus on something positive. Your brain needs time to rebound from the shock you have just given it.

After 15 minutes, an hour, or a few days depending on how serious the blow was, you can now start to take an account of just how bad the damage is. Now you have learned to accept it and you can move to the next step which is getting to the answer. Before you get to the solution though you must be able to categorize all the problems that the incident has caused you.

Once you have a firm understanding of all the areas that are in need of repair you can begin the process of fixing the parts which are broken. Take things in little bites and write it out on a list so that you can get the pleasure of checking each one off. There is something about checking things off a list that makes you feel like you are really accomplishing something. When you are in this final stage it is a good time to think of safeguards to make sure this issue never happens again. For me, I have made it part of my life to always make a copy of things now before I delete them off FTP.

Luckily for me I had a back up of the most important things in my website. Once I sat back and relaxed my mind was able to rebound from the emotional turmoil. I was then able to logically think about what was wrong. Now I am in the process of putting it all back together and creating safeguards to make sure it never happens again. If you can learn from the mistake or tragedy then it is not a total loss. It can actually be a gain if you hadn't gone through this now something bigger may have happened to you in the future.

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This article was published on 2011/01/09
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